Gregor Vorbarra and the horrifying plotbunny

I would like you all to know that Gregor is being a hell-child. Child may be the wrong term, he's twenty-ish. Yet I can't help feeling he is behaving rather horribly immaturely. There's the using people, the lying by omission, the incredible rationalization of dubious consent issues (though heaven knows Illyan's guilty of backing him up on that one), and the cake-topper, the firm belief that no wrong is greater than his wrong and no angst is deeper than his angst.

Honestly, Gregor, all things considered you're a relatively harmless pervert. Fantastically creepy, but not in your father's league at all, so please stop being an emo bastard on that score? Illyan's right: you have picked a good keeper, no one's going to let you go there, even if you had shown any inclination to, which you haven't.

*mutters* Muses.