This is now making me wonder about interpretations of requests. Because I have had people tell me "You should write [kink]", in a way that makes it obvious that they're after it because it turns them on, but I've also had people encourage me to write certain stories, which may or may not have been about turning them on. So now I'm wondering how my agreement that someone should totally write X because it would be awesome has been taken in the past. Hmm.

(A couple of years of putting up with certain people who would tell me things like they "had alone time" or "jumped [their] husband" after reading fic has left me oblivious to anything but anvils.)