jmtorres: From Lady Gaga's Bad Romance music video; the peach-haired, wide-eyed iteration (Default)
jmtorres ([personal profile] jmtorres) wrote 2009-12-13 06:17 pm (UTC)

That someone wishes to transform it into one of the many ways it can dress up...wow.

I first got the "pretty, pretty princess" remarks re braiding from [personal profile] echan, when I was demanding she do up my battle braids for a show I was ASMing. But yeah, it's a special occasion thing, too. [personal profile] niqaeli's been asking me how I want her to braid my hair for the wedding.

every time I'm about to, someone comments positively on my greying head

My blue streak faded to grey this semester; the freshmen all called me ma'am. At 26 I do not feel this was a positive comment. *laugh* That's not an identity I can quite comfortably step into yet...

It's not being a slave to how others see you - it's presenting yourself however you wish to be seen.

Oh, but this is complicated in my book; it's why I'm struggling so hard to define why I want, where that want comes from. Social programming gets inside your head until you can't tell if it's you or them. The other part, too, is that doing something to Not Be X is as reactive to social programming as doing something to Be X.


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