ilu and heart all of that, I don't know if I have anything coherent to respond!

i keep thinking of Willow from Buffy, and I recollect that there was fandom disagreement on whether Willow was bisexual (dated both Oz and Tara) or lesbian (the character marked a sharp delineation in her identity, but was that realistic or was that because Joss Whedon cannot nuance?) I keep hoping we can expect more from our media these days.