I id as bisexual(and about equally attracted to men and women), but a) it does not roll trippingly off my tongue, and b) sometimes I'll refer to myself as a lesbian for sake of argument and/or joke. And because I feel more comfortable with that label sometimes. Which just confuses people. I wish, sometimes, that I was more comfortable with queer as a label for myself, because I think it actually encompasses more of how I roll, but I always feel like a pretentious twit when I use it, even though I don't ascribe pretentious twitness to others who use it. (Or at least, simply because they use it.)

Sorry, I tangented at you.